This was the umpteenth time I was getting Botox in my forehead, and Juvaderm in my marionette lines. These types of cosmetic procedures have been a part of my life for the past fifteen years. Fortunately, in those past fifteen years the attitude of society has changed. Years ago they were seen as selfish and a bit narcissistic. If I would bring up the fact that I was considering having something done, some of the responses I heard were, "Why do this to yourself?", "You're beautiful as you are", "So sad you want to do this. What happened to you that caused you to be insecure?" Or worse, "I'm proud of my grey hair and wrinkles, I've earned them!" And this was usually said in a firm voice after discussing or seeing someone who looks younger than they actually are.
Of course, I have no regrets regarding the numerous times I've had fillers. I'm happy society is viewing cosmetic work with much more of an open mind. Growing old gracefully isn't about how many wrinkles you have or don't have. It's not about grey hair, colored hair, or no hair. It's not about thin and muscular, or heavy and soft. Growing old gracefully is about how much a person has learned over the years. Growing old gracefully is how you treat others, how you use the pain you have experienced in your long years to help or forgive others. It's about whether or not you've stayed vulnersble in spite of life's difficult journey. It's about being loving, gracious, open minded, inclusive in your humanity. It's about how well you love yourself and others.
If you are someone who has grown old gracefully, people will feel comfortable around you, they'll feel free to talk to you without having to worry about being judged. People who grow old gracefully are always kind.
I've let go of trying to analyze why I do the things I do. At this stage in my life, my goal is to love the stranger, no matter what. My goal is to grow old gracefully on the inside!
Getting back to my procedures; I'm not gonna lie, I love them. The results make me happy when I look myself inthemirror. . They make me happy and realize how fortunate I am to be able to have them. While I play around with the outside of myself, I take seriously the inside. I judge myself and have a standard I strive to attain. And that standard is to love well!
Hey! Thanks for reading. xoxoxo
I've let go of trying to analyze why I do the things I do. At this stage in my life, my goal is to love the stranger, no matter what. My goal is to grow old gracefully on the inside!
Getting back to my procedures; I'm not gonna lie, I love them. The results make me happy when I look myself inthemirror. . They make me happy and realize how fortunate I am to be able to have them. While I play around with the outside of myself, I take seriously the inside. I judge myself and have a standard I strive to attain. And that standard is to love well!
Hey! Thanks for reading. xoxoxo
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